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Moments from a Mid Life Crisis

Stalking – Or How Not to Find a Soulmate

November 22, 2017

Ok, so I accept that some weeks you have to have wacko-Wednesday.  Somehow or other I got embroiled in this strange conversation with a man about the use of psychic self-defence in cases where someone has been forced to “sever a soul connection.”

For those of you who are blissfully unaware of these concepts a couple of definitions:

A soulmate (or soul mate) is a person with whom one has a feeling of deep or natural affinity. This may involve similarity, love, romance, intimacy, sexuality, sexual activity, spirituality, or compatibility and trust. (Wikipedia)


A Soul Connection is said to be the deepest, most meaningful connection, with the meeting of souls over many lifetimes.

You get the drift.

GlastonburyThis particular person was convinced he had a soul connection with his soulmate over the course of many, many lifetimes.  Apparently, this was confirmed by a charlatan expert in the area of past life regressions and the recovery of memories from our long past lives. There was, in fact, a whole backstory involving marriages, attempted suicides, and so on.  All very romantic I’m sure until one day it all took a turn for the worst when following a trip to an ancient stone circle the woman informed him that “Archangel Michael has severed our soul connection”.

To most people that would say “go away” very loudly but no, instead he moved to the town in which she lived and joined several clubs of which she is was a member.  She runs away from him if she sees him in the street.

Now apparently, this is all about reconnecting with his soulmate and his love with whom the charlatan expert had probably taken a lot of money to “confirm” he was “meant to be” with.  At this point, it all started to get even more creepy.  But I think it illustrates the point that sometimes telling people what they want to hear for money can have some pretty serious consequences.    Including it seems a form of new-age stalking.

What’s sad is that he cannot see that this is not love….love is reciprocated.  If someone loves you and wants to be with you they don’t run away from you in the street and destroy their own social life just to avoid you.




Originally posted in 2014

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